Author: ohlala80

Something inconceivable happened to us this Ramadan. What started out as a peaceful month of worship ended as a turbulent month of instability and uncertainty. My country, a country whose main purpose was centered upon peace, prosperity and compassion towards us and others was being brutally attacked by Iran in a war we neither started nor participated in. Our calm nights became a center stage for loud missiles and drones. Our days became a series of siren alerts on our phones and on our streets. Roads became blocked and security guarded every area and scanned every vehicle and pedestrian. The explosions in the air shook our windows and our spirits. Sounds so unfamiliar to us were becoming customary as through the nights and days we hear missiles and drones being immaculately intercepted. Suddenly nothing else seemed as important as the safety of our country and our leaders. For what could be more important than protecting our very home? Our country handled the attacks with the utmost efficiency all the while assuring the nation that it will keep us safe. This effective and comforting nature of handling the war with grace and commitment whilst ensuring the wellbeing of it’s people was nothing new to the UAE. The UAE is a pioneer in dealing with crisis with the absolute care and comfort of its people coming first. In return we have complete trust in our nation and our government and we will not be defeated. We will once again rise while being reminded of the preciousness of this life and this country of ours. This is going to be a temporary set back, a tribulation in which we rise stronger and more determined than ever.

For now though it’s going to be a different kind of Eid. It’s going to be a time of solidarity and unity. The enemy might have instilled in us fear but it shall never shake our spirits. We will continue to pray for our country and we will never again take anything for granted. Quiet mornings, lazy routines, repetitive days now seem like privileges. So this Eid despite being different, we will cherish the time spent with family, we will hug each other a little longer and we shall play with children a little harder. We shall be more present and more faithful and grateful for the little things before the big things and we shall continue to pray for our country, our soldiers and our leaders. We shall continue to pray for our nation that lays awake at night guarding us so we could have this Eid and so we could cherish these little moments in this unpredictable thing called life.

Here it is again, as promised by the lord above, the month of holiness, the month of supplication, the month of total submission to God almighty. Here is the month of the Quran the month where Muslims unite as one in their submission to God. Here is the much anticipated month of Ramadan the month of offering and perseverance. The month that while we fast we are reminded of those less fortunate who are bereft from food all year round and not just in one month… may this Ramadan continue to cleanse our souls as it cleanses our bodies and may it remind us of how privileged we truly. As we gather around the table during for iftar let as praise the lord for all the food before us and the silent blessings around us and may we maintain our devotion to the rest of the months to come. Ramadan Mubarak 🌙

There’s no better way to start the year than with the cool winter breeze teasing my face and tickling my body. I am mesmerized by the surge of contentment that fills me up when the weather is cool. Winters in the UAE are a time where families huddle together around the bonfire in the desert, it is a time of barbecues, hot cocoas and children squealing with delight. Being a desert country we welcome the cool breeze with open arms, and when it rains we marvel at the droplets showering our dusty homes and flooding our heat stricken streets. My mood is always lifted in the winter and with Ramadan on the way I couldn’t be happier. Wishing you all the joy in this crisp and chilly winter. Let us make the most of this short period of coolness that we endure and let us anticipate the blessed month of Ramadan on the way. Much love 🌧️ 

القادم أجمل باذن الله❣️

As we close the chapter on another year and open the one to a new one I reminisce on the highlights and the lowlights of it all. What grasps my attention is the factors that kept me grounded, the factors that gave me strength and kept me going. I am forever indebted to my marriage and to my children and to my family. Having my family’s support, my children’s love and a solid marriage (far from perfect yet solid) gives me strength and gives me a sense of purpose in life. I am also indebted to my faith which gives me direction. For those factors that give me strength and direction I am forever grateful for without them I would not have a sense of purpose or belonging. Next come my friends. I’ve formed bonds and friendships that lasted the test of time and for that I am also forever grateful. So when you look back at the past year look not just at the experiences but look at what kept you grounded what kept you strong and what gave you purpose. Eternally grateful to God for reminding me I’m not alone, that I have God in my heart, safety amongst my people and that I’m grounded in my life. Looking forwards to the new year… the best is yet to come. 🌷

When you’re in your 40’s something magical occurs. A certain serenity descends on you and you’re suddenly calmer, softer and more tranquil… you’ve gained wisdom from life’s lessons. You’ve failed yet gotten up again this time stronger and more recovered. Life starts to look like a painting and you are the observer admiring every single stroke… the bright and the dark. You have more patience and you’ve built a resilience forever protecting you from further discouragements. You enjoy and appreciate the moment and you look back and tell yourself “Yes.. I’ve lived…” You start to focus on what truly matters like love, family and faith. Your health becomes a priority and your time becomes your investment spending it only on what adds value to you. You’ve learned to unapologetically get up from the table when love is no longer served… the forties is the age where you appreciate the past whilst anticipate the future with a clearer mind and a refreshed soul it is an elite access to peace with life still ahead with the promise of a greater tomorrow.

October 22, 2025 

To Whom It May Concern: 

It is with great pride that I write this letter of recommendation for my daughter Noora Alkhaja. Mothers will often praise their own children; however, praise alone doesn’t do justice to this bright young lady. As a middle child Noora learned from such a young age to be independent and to stand out. From the mere age of one Noora as a baby girl learned to stand on her own, walk on her own and even eat on her own. Being the middle child in the family also taught her to be assertive and determined in standing out which she did remarkably. Noora is a star as she shines bright with her determination and assertiveness.  

Noora is always learning and always creating. Besides excelling at school and presenting all her schoolwork and school projects with the utmost precision, she is also an artist and a lot of her artwork display technique that goes beyond her age. Outside of school she also embraces many talents. For instance, she started to show a great interest in crochet, and at the very young age of eleven she started her own crochet business crocheting some of the most unique patterns and figures and putting them up for sale. Noora is a determined young lady who never gives up. I still painfully remember how when she was about thirteen years old while practicing her horse riding she had a major accident. The horse galloped out of control throwing her headfirst on to the fence where she acquired major bruises and had to be rushed immediately to the hospital. Despite the major accident Noora still never gave up. It took some time as she persisted and persevered to get back up on the horse again but she did it and today she is quite the equestrian. Noora was selected to talk in the schools TED talks and I sat proudly listening to my daughter talk eloquently on the subject of the Importance of Compassion. She is kind and gentle, everyone big and small feels at ease around her. Today as a young lady she is full of wit, charm and capability making her the perfect friend and a splendid daughter.  

I am confident that Noora will achieve great things and will continue to thrive in an institution that encourages growth and innovation. A simple recommendation letter doesn’t even begin to portray all the marvel that my daughter Noora embodies. I truly admire the well-rounded young lady my daughter Noora has become and I look forwards to seeing more of her achieving great things. 

Best Regards, 

Sarah Alkhaja 

Mother of Noora Alkhaja 

As I sat alone at night unwinding in front of the television my hand rested gently on my belly as memoires started flooding in my mind. I started to gently rub my belly and I thanked it for carrying my children.. even the one I didn’t get to hold… I thanked it for all the trauma and pain it has gone through for me.. never letting me down… I then put my hand gently on my chest and I thanked my heart… for all the heartache.. for all the pain it has endured while still making room for joy… then I rubbed my arms.. the ones that held me when no one was there to hold me… for helping me carry my children and helped me wash my body and eat my meals… for constantly moving and tending to my needs… then I moved to my head… my head trying to cope with all its anxious thoughts while still persevering throughout the day… today I’m going to be gentle and grateful with myself for the dark days I overcame and for the bright days I thankfully experienced and shall continue to experience with my body holding it together for me…

How you start your day reflects on to the rest of it. I like to start my day with a daily gratitude. Gratitude for all the blessings in my life the obvious and the not so obvious. As I sip my morning cup of coffee I say my morning duas (morning prayers). I contemplate on all that the all mighty has granted me from health, family, friends, the roof on top of my head, the food on the table the chance simply to be alive… I remind myself that I am living through many answered prayers and I draw a smile on my face. After taking care of my mind and soul through gratitude I encourage myself to go to the gym to take care of my body. This way my day starts with taking care of my body and soul and that sets the tone to the rest of the day. So don’t forget your prayers and be mindful of everything you do during the day as it is a chance to start fresh and do better. Be mindful of what you drink, what you eat, what you surround yourself with. Let’s simply be grateful for being alive and being surrounded by loved ones. We are not alone we have the all mighty and we have our families and friends and we have our faith that it is going to be a good day. I once read a quote that says ‘The good thing is nothing lasts forever, the bad thing is nothing lasts forever’ so cherish the good and the ordinary for if your day was ordinary filled with stillness and routine then you’re still lucky for there are those living in turbulent times. Wishing you a blessed day ahead. Share with me your daily routine.. much love ❤️

Lately I have been running out of ideas on what to write. However something in me is certain that I should continue to do so… write. I don’t know where I’m going with my writing as my dream of having a blog happened atleast 20 years too late. But it happened and here it is and something in me says I should continue. Perhaps one day I can print my memoires into a biography or simply a diary of a girl lost in her own dreams of a better world. In the past I felt a thrive to share so much of what’s going on in my life and the world… For some reason though lately my brain has been foggy and my emotions tepid. People have pointed out that I talk less, express less when honestly most of the times I am simply dreaming of another world, another life somewhere where I have more substance. Has this serenity come with age? I think so… so in order to come back to reality and engage more with life I practice being present. I practice romanticizing the little things in life… my morning cup of coffee… my exercise routine… my family… especially my family. I try to spend more time with my family especially my children who are growing up too fast for me that I feel I can’t keep up. I cherish the moments I’m with my children while secretly I’m melancholic as I know these moments shall not last forever. One day my children will go on on their own paths and form their own families and have their own lives to comit to. I pray that they will still have some room for me. A thought that makes me so glad is imagining my children having children and me being a grandparent. Oh how loved that blessed grandchild will be. I imagine my grand children mischievously running around my house when my children come to visit as I scoop them up in a tight hug in my arms. I hope that day comes and that my children are happy and loved in their own new families.

Here it is my July entry… just a little bit of what’s been rambling about in my head. Not much more to say except to hope for another day of good health, peaceful days and love.

During turbulent times like these where nothing is certain or foreseen I find myself returning to God. Therefore during moments of content we need to savor the moment fully and be present and grateful and enjoy every second of it. We need to be appreciative and thankful to God for granting us these moments of peace and contentment for nothing is certain and nothing lasts forever. I believe that this life is a series of tribulations and difficulties in order for us to return to God and strengthen our bond with the Al Mighty. So let us offer our gratitude and appreciation to the Al Mighty through prayer and supplication so he would continue to extend his blessings upon us. Let us not forget the uncertainty of this life and the cruelty of some of mankind and let’s not let all the blessings around us go unnoticed for there are many people around the world living in destitute and impoverishment. May the air we breathe, the health we bear, the roofs on top of our heads and the meals on our tables continue to surround us and may we not take anything for granted so God continues to offer us his blessings and his mercy upon us in this vast uncertain world.